Circle of Concerns and Circle of Influence in our Life

  The Circle of Concerns and Circle of Influence

                                     

The Circle of Concerns:

The Circle of Concern includes everything you worry about but can't directly control, like other people's actions, global events, or natural disasters. It's a broad area encompassing all external factors that might affect you. Focusing too much on these concerns can lead to stress and helplessness.

for example:-

For a school boy: This might be the difficulty of upcoming exams or peer pressure etc...

For a healthy person: It could be worrying about global issues like climate change or economic downturns etc...

The Circle of Influence:

The Circle of Influence focuses on the aspects of life where you can take action and make a difference. Unlike the Circle of Concern, which includes everything you worry about, the Circle of Influence is limited to the things you can directly control. By concentrating on this circle, you can make effective use of your energy and resources, leading to positive outcomes. This proactive approach helps reduce feelings of helplessness and increases your sense of empowerment and effectiveness. It involves taking responsibility for your actions, attitudes, and responses to situations.

for example:-

For a school boy: You can influence your study habits, time management, and the effort you put into preparing for exams. Focusing on your Circle of Influence leads to personal growth, improved problem-solving skills, and greater resilience.

For a healthy person: In relationships, you can control how you communicate and respond to others, rather than trying to change them. Focusing on your Circle of Influence leads to personal growth, improved problem-solving skills, and greater resilience.

    Over time, as you successfully manage the things within your influence, this circle can expand, allowing you to positively impact a larger portion of your concerns.